Thursday, 23 June 2011

Married Life.....:)





28 June 2009.

Yeah , this is the most important day of my life. Now it seems like a dream, to have completed 2 years of blissfully married life! Strange it seems!! Isn't it all you married people out there?? Time just flies!!

But the question is are all the days really blissful??

No, to say the least..:-)

I felt every damn emotion in this world. There were days when I laughed my teeth and heart out!! :-P Sometimes I felt on top of the world , sometimes I just felt like crying and crying....but I guess thats what marriage is all about....and if someone swears by happy days throughout their married life....trust me they are lying.......:-P

Each marriage is unique in its own way and mine is no exception. And the one thing that I can say is -- I learned a lot about relationships and , what it takes to keep it strong so that the love grows and grows and grows.....

And, the ultimate thing I have learned through my experience is:
 Pyaar se sab haasil ho sakta hai  (Love can achieve everything)
 Nafrat se kuch bhi nahi  (Hatred nothing)

Believe me. And yeah , obviously there are exceptions to this too because you know --'kuch laato ke bhoot baaton se nahi maantein'.

Marriage of two souls is the most beautiful and sacred thing. Respect it. Love it. Trust it. Understand it. Enjoy it. And the most important thing -- Nurture it.

At the end all I can say is when it is worth all the pain do everything on earth that you can to make it more beautiful and loving but if nothing works and you know its not worth it -- Get rid of it soon....Get a Divorce....hahahahahahhahahahaha

:-P

I am really sorry for posting soooo late.....but I can only write when I feel like.......:-)

And yeah, ill write more on this heated topic after deep retrospection and trust me you will love it......

Thank you all for reading my "whatever" posts....:-)





11 comments:

  1. Wow!I'm so happy to see you back again :)
    Hmm...came back with many experiences ..I would love to know more and more about your life and about depth of relationships!! So,it seems you are enjoying your life ..wonderful! Live life love life..
    Take care

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  2. Thanks a lottt Simi dear.....
    Yeah I am...n still learning...
    :)

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  3. for me "Marriage is a high and holy state to be held in honour among all men and women....!!!"

    .Wish you many many more happy years of togetherness.

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  4. and just to let you know i completed my 12 yrs of marriage last week n here is a post on it......

    http://irfanurs.blogspot.com/2011/06/twelve-yrs-of-togetherness.html

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  5. Welcome back Nandini,and I am so happy to see you here.I believe in everything you have written.For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin-real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life...so is marriage.

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  6. Welcome back didi...you are so very correct...live it,love it ..if not then leave it..ha ha ha..

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  7. Wow !!! Shaadi karne ka mann kar gaya :P :D

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  8. Thanks a lott Irfan bhai for ur wishes....
    and many congrats on 12 yrs of ur happily married life...very few people r thr in this world like u who understand the beauty of this revered institution , rather they prefer to enjoy the thrills of an extra maritial affair....
    I respect u a lot and hope to learn much from u n ur experiences....
    Thanks a lottt agn for ur tym...
    :)

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  9. Alpana no words can describe my respect for u...n i can only hope to match ur wisdom n intelligence....
    Thanks a lott for ur tym....it means a lott to me...I am obliged that u loved my post n believed in my words....
    :)

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  10. Neha and Ankit u two are my biggest pillar of support......thanks soooo much for being there...
    Luv u two a lottt....
    :)

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  11. I guess you have learned lot of things from your sweet husband about how to go about in life......:)
    Also, I know when we started our life together we were two shores of the ocean but it is our love which has made us travel close to each other and meet in the middle of the deep ocean.I always knew, my beautiful wife, u are full of talent and can be a good writer but never used it.Now,that you have started writing I will like you to continue doing that and be an inspiration for more people as you are for your sisters and me.
    Luv u....
    :)

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